Is it ok to keep photo albums of past boyfriends?...or shoe boxes with little nic nacs from past boyfriends?

well is it ok? or no? my girl friends does this

Is it ok to keep photo albums of past boyfriends?...or shoe boxes with little nic nacs from past boyfriends?
Time to move on and let go of these items.
Reply:definately NO. She is obviously still holding on to them, she needs to get over it. Put the past in the past.
Reply:Just as long as it doesn't mean anything. At my mom's house (in another state) I have a box of past boyfriends letters, drawings, and pictures, and at our apartment, I have a couple pictures of friends and guys I dated in highschool, but not a box of stuff around from them. But they're also guys I could care less about. And my fiance had one picture of his ex and a shirt she gave him (which I hate just because she gave it to him) but I know probably just like the couple pics in my album, it means nothing to him and he probably doesn't even connect the fact that his ex gave him the shirt when he wears it. I mean, just as long as it's not a shrine to her ex, and just memories from her past that she'd maybe like her kids to see someday or something, then it should be alright. If it bugs you that much though, start a new memory box of your own for her, and ask her that you're going to need that extra space that the box of her ex takes up for your new memories you'll be making together and maybe she can move it to her parents garage.
Reply:I think it is ok you can't take away someones past everyone has one



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